With the coming
of the new year (Happy New year, by the way) I decided to do something
different. As you can imagine, we must get a little bit of mail.
Most of it pretty good, then you get the questions, and finally
the junk mail. Well, for those of you that are responsible for filling
our PO box with all manners of sales offers, I should inform you
that you are wasting your time. My neighbor's cockatoo has enjoyed
your offerings immensely from the bottom of his cage. Get the picture?
The other mail
we get a lot of is e-mail. Personally, you'll get a much faster
response from us via "e-mail" than regular mail. Yes,
I know it is discrimination against the technologically challenged,
but you'll just have to live with it.
Lets start off
the New Year with a collection of our best letters since the last
Magic and Marie
I have a meeting scheduled with
a couple from a personal ad I answered. She
says she is interested in taking
on two guys. I have never done this nor
have I ever met someone in this
type of setting. Any advice u can give me
on questions and such would be
I am looking forward to your
next column. How is Desiree ?
Thanks for writing Howard.
Desiree is fine, I saw her in September. At the
moment, she is distracted by college and other life problems. As
for the rest of your question:
The first thing I suggest you do is get an
AIDS and Herpes test, with written
results in YOUR name. You also would not be out of line
requesting one from them either; however, if they are serious about
being swingers, they should already have had one or two, as the
case may be. What you want to see is congruity. One test is acceptable
several tests in a row over time is even better. I personally
have a 3 ring binder of tests going back 7 years.
The first time is tough. You're nervous, you're
apprehensive, and afraid you'll act like a jerk. Well, the best
thing you can do (one of them anyway) is RELAX!!! You see, Howard,
since it is their first time, they are just as scared as you are.
So, with that in mind, let us venture forth:
Before your meeting, ask them what their expectations
are. Try to ascertain if she's doing this because "she"
wants two guys, or is it the husband who wants to watch her with
another man. This is important, because if this whole adventure
is fueled by his desires, you have to be prepared for the possibility
that she may not really be into it. This being the case, it may
not be a fun time because she'll never relax.
I personally like to ask another couple not only
what their expectations are, but to give me a general sense of what
her (their) fantasy is. What I mean by this is, how does she dream
about getting it? Is this a romantic-based fantasy like with low
lights, candles, sensual touching, and lots of tender foreplay,
or do they seek a dominant man to "take charge" and fuck
her like the slut she is?
Don't be shy about asking questions. For instance,
you should know whether or not she likes "cum" on her
face before you shoot it there. If not, then where can you shoot
it? Is anal sex okay? If yes, will you be expected to join the husband
in double penetration? If so, then who's going to stick it in her
ass? Of course, we also can't forget the one question asked of the
husband that is most important to the American (homophobic) male,
"You're straight, right?"
When you meet them, be a gentleman. Get a sense
of who they are. From this, you can tell how fast they want to go.
The mistake most single men make is in trying to "impress the
woman" with how much of a fuck stud he is. This usually is
the wrong approach, and will result in a "crash and burn"
on deck before takeoff. You need to keep in mind that this is a
couple, and her husband is merely sharing her with you but for a
moment in time. What you should focus on is getting to know them
both to the degree they wish to allow.
Recently I met with a couple who came here on vacation,
and to meet with me and Marie. Unfortunately, Marie had to go to
the states for a few months, so it was just me. (We did inform them
ahead of time so that they could change their plans if they wanted
Like all new couples, they were nervous as we were
out for drinks at a wharf-side bar. I calmly sat on one side of
Diane while her husband, Manor, sat on the other side. I leaned
back and relaxed as I talked with them about a wide range of topics.
Once I felt they were comfortable with me, I warmly and casually
asked Diane did she mind if I touched her? With a demure smile,
she said, "No, I wouldn't mind."
So, as the conversation went on, I lightly caressed
her hands and neck with my fingertips in the most sensual, but discreet
fashion. It wasn't long before her nipples began to press up against
the fabric of her sun dress, and her skin flushed in the cool Caribbean
sea breeze. With a bold but very causal move, I let my fingertips
stroke across her nipple as I seemingly brought my hand down to
the table. This sent a clear message, I know you're turned on. We
finished our drinks and headed back to their hotel room.
To get things started I had Diane dance for Manor
and me. We tuned the radio to a station she liked, and let her have
her fun. As she swayed and shimmied in front of both of us, I reached
out and touched her ass, which she enjoyed. "May I join you,"
I asked. "Sure," she replied.
Getting up, I danced with her as I undid my
shirt. Diane reached out and felt up my pecks, kneading them as
she moved with me. I looked over at Manor, trying to gauge his reactions
to see if this was still okay. (Something you should always do.)
He sat there rubbing himself, so I turned my attention back to Diane.
I reached up with my right hand and pulled the
shoulder strap of her sun dress. Then I did the same with the left.
Diane smiled a sensuous smile, as she continued dancing and letting
the dress fall to the floor. Underneath the dress she wore only
light pink bikini panties, and her pert breasts jiggled with her
movements. She stood about 5'6", slim, with raven black hair
that was cut short in almost a "page boy" style. She had
long legs, with a short hip and torso.
Diane reached out for me again, and this time
I pulled her to me as we did kind of a "Lambda" sort of
thing. As we grind together, her legs on either side of my leg with
her bare pussy rubbing into my jeans, I bend my head and take her
nipple into my mouth. Her head tilts back as she sucks in air between
her teeth while my tongue dances around her erect nipple, and one
hand moves down to grab the cheek of her ass, and I squeeze.
Diane's hands snake down and grab for my belt.
A few movements later and she has my pants unzipped, and I step
away to free myself. By this time, her husband is now standing behind
her with his hands cupping her breasts as she grinds her ass into
his crotch. Dropping my briefs, I stand in front of her and slide
my hand between her legs. She was hot, and wonderfully wet. Her
juices had already coated her outer lips. I curled my fingers and
scooped some of her juices into my palm. She leaned back into her
husband as I began to finger fuck her while sucking on her nipples.
After a while I spun her around.
"Take off his pants," I commanded
as I held on to her hips. Diane bent at the waist and undid Manor's
trousers. Then, with but a single pull, she frees his manhood and
drops his underwear. "Suck it," I said. Diane took it
into her mouth and began to suck her husband's cock, while my fingers
moved in and out of her body. Muffled cries of passion escaped her
lips as she slurped and sucked his member. Her legs opened wider
as she pressed against my fingers, fucking them.
By this time, my cock was rock hard and inches
away from her pussy. Grabbing my cock, I positioned it at her opening.
Diane rocked forward, then came back. Her hungry, wet hole swallowed
me instantly, and she gave a muffled screech of delight as she began
to fuck my cock.
"Let's go to the floor," I suggested.
Without letting go of her husband's cock, Diane
dropped to all fours from her standing, bent over position. As soon
as we were all down, she began to impale herself in earnest on my
cock. The sight of his wife fucking me really turned Manor on. It
was the first time in a long while she acted like a true slut.
After about 20 minutes, Manor came in Diane's
mouth, shooting a large hot blast that escaped from the corners
of her mouth. I took hold of her hips and began to pound her from
behind with glee. At one point, she began to scream, and I thought
the hotel manager would be knocking on the door any second. Diane
began to cum repeatedly, her head thrashing about as her body racked
in contortions. I continued to pump and grind for about another
30 minutes, before I blasted my first load for the night.
So, remember Howard...relax, be a gentleman,
listen, and ask questions. Let us know how it went.
Dear Magic & Marie:
My husband and I love your column.
Your stories are not only "hot," but you also give good
information, which is rare. In one of your stories, you talked about
a Swingers Convention. We know about the one in California, but
are there any good ones on the East Coast? If there are, which ones
are you planning to attend? I'd love to meet you, Magic.
Moressa & Stan
(Address withheld by request)
Hello Moressa & Stan,
Thank You for your support. It is nice to get encouraging
In '97' on the East Coast, there should be several
conventions. I am definitely planning to be at Reflections 97,
March 20-23, in Daytona Beach, Florida. Also, Conclave in
Chicago usually happens around the same time. I don't have the exact
information on that one yet.
I might be at Visions 97, which I understand
will be moved to Tampa this year. As for dates, expect it to be
in May, but I can't recall exactly when. Like Reflections,
it's an excellent beginners convention. I highly recommend them
both, whether you're just starting out or even if you're a monogamous
If you're into Dominance and Submission, then I
may see you at Dominion 97, which is a convention devoted
to such play. Marie, Desiree and I were at the first one, and it
turned out rather well. Expect it to be somewhere in Florida around
August, which also happens to conflict with Lifestyles (the
Big one) in San Diego about the same time.
Marie and I hope the holidays for you and yours
were happy, and that the New Year will bring us all prosperity,
good health, and lots of fun sex.
Until next time