4 Don’t be afriad of who you are - Or I love a good whore

I have often been quoted in saying:

” I Love a good whore, good girls bore me.”

The path, which many of you have chosen, is not easy. Women are taught or socialized to be afraid of who they are or who they could be.

For me there is sadness when I see a woman who is afraid of whom she is. How many nights have you sat in your room looking at the four walls wondering where it all went wrong? How more days will you sit at the job you hate looking at your desk and KNOWING you’d rather be bent over it being fucked, being enjoyed, being used or hell even getting paid for it?

It’s easy to get up tomorrow and make a million reasons why you can’t change it, wont change it. But the bottom line is you’re afraid that once you give in to who you are you’ll never what to come back. Some of you are afraid, that you’ll look back and realize what a fool you’ve been all this time and inner peace which comes with self acceptance was always within your grasp.

Being a whore (yes I said whore, it’s not a bad thing, assuming this applies to you at all..) is not something you just get up in the morning and decide your going to do or be. It has to come from within you; it’s whom you are and what you are. From an alternative prospective women who are natural whores or even sluts are more honest about their needs and desires. They in short are honest about who they are, instead of living the social lie they have been taught, programmed or conditioned to live. For many of you once you stop “the denial” and accept it you can no more stop being a whore, than I could deny being Dominant Black male. You can try, but you’re fooling yourself.

A women’s sexuality is a powerful thing when allowed to bloom and flourish. Why do you think our society goes to great-calculated lengths to suppress it? Psychological conditioning, sociological programming and religious dogma reinforce this suppression. From the time you are young, females are taught sex is bad, sex is evil, sex is nasty and don’t touch yourself down there. Of course if this doesn’t work, there is always the double whammy of shame and guilt as well. Next comes the sociological programming where women will chastise others for taking any form of sexual enjoyment outside the established social norm

For those of you who are afraid look inside and see, feel and accept the whore you are. You were taught to be afraid and sometimes you get to a point in life wherein you have been drowning so long, you can’t see the hand in front of you trying to help you. Ultimately, you’re afraid if you stop thrashing long enough to grab the offered hand you’ll drown.

But if then if you don’t, you WILL drown.

… and that ladies, would make me even sadder.

Just some thoughts to share.

Regards

Sir Magic

  1. Sir Magic:I have visited your website mulitple times in the past few months, but only now do I have the courage to comment. Your website and blog have spoke to me on so many levels. I can finally but a finger on the gapping hole that has been in my life. I know now that I have been trying to drown my inner whore. I have a dominant personality. My friends and family look to me for the right answers. But I long for domination. I long for a man to use me strictly for his pleasure. Thank you for website and helping me to full void that has always been in my life.
    - Amy Oct 11, 01:23 PM    #
  2. Magic, your insight has always been valuable to be, no matter what the time it was given, I have always listened closely to what you’ve had to say. I am certainly glad to know that my being a little slut isn’t exactly a bad thing, thanks for the reassurance ;)Blessed Be,

    Paloma
    - Paloma Oct 26, 12:09 PM

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